A 34-year-old girl, I’ve been single and specializing in work for a few years.
I consider myself as a rational girl who enjoys working. My present month-to-month revenue ranges round VND100 million (US$4,100) and I’ve a financial savings quantity of a number of billions of dong.
However the older I get, the extra I take into consideration my future. On the one hand, I need to discover somebody to spend the remainder of my life with, so I’ve tried matchmaking companies a number of instances and truly had many leads.
Then again, it’s arduous for me to take any relationship with anybody additional as I don’t have a lot religion in romantic relationships.
To me, committing with somebody for an entire life is simply too dangerous. As I admire what I’ve now since I’ve labored arduous for them, I’m afraid that I must share them with an unworthy husband or in-laws, on condition that marrying somebody with an academic background and an revenue on par with me is tough for somebody my age.
And I need to admit that I’m not good at studying others as effectively, which has made a number of of my romantic relationships fail due to betrayal.
One other downside is that I don’t need to spend time with somebody that doesn’t depart me with good impressions at first encounter, since I’m already busy with my work. This causes it arduous for me to take any relationships additional.
I see many individuals round me getting married then divorced after which remarried so simply, however I’m not that form of individual. So, I’ll ponder arduous earlier than moving into any relationship, although I don’t need to spend my previous age alone both.
What ought to I do? Will I’ve regrets later in life if I stay single until the tip of my life?