A Night of Violence That Changed Everything
One of the most defining moments of Theron’s life came at the age of 15. Home from boarding school in Johannesburg, she witnessed a traumatic and life-altering event involving her parents. Her father, Charles, who struggled with alcoholism, returned home one evening drunk and carrying a gun.
“My father was so drunk that he shouldn’t have been able to walk when he came into the house with a gun,” Theron told NPR in 2019. “Both of us were leaning against the door from the inside to have him not be able to push through. He took a step back and just shot through the door three times. None of the bullets ever hit us, which is just a miracle.”


In an act of self-defense, Theron’s mother, Gerda, retrieved her own handgun and shot Charles, killing him. Gerda was never charged, as authorities determined she acted to protect herself and her daughter. While the incident left emotional scars, Theron has used the pain to fuel her acting, particularly in films like Dark Places, where she played a woman haunted by family tragedy.
A Career Derailed by Injury
Long before acting, Theron dreamed of becoming a professional ballerina. She trained rigorously, modeling on the side to fund her studies. But after years of dedication, her knees gave out, forcing her to abandon her dreams of dancing. “I realized I couldn’t dance anymore, and I went into a major depression,” she told Far Out Magazine in 2020.
Her mother, ever a source of strength, encouraged her to pivot. “My mom came over from South Africa and said, ‘Either you figure out what to do next, or you come home.’” With her mother’s support, Theron shifted her focus to acting, where she found a new creative outlet.
Despite leaving professional dance behind, Theron’s love for the art never faded. In July 2024, she opened a dance studio, The Six Compound, in Burbank, California, to help others pursue their dance dreams.