Ought to I marry a South Korean man at 52?

My eldest baby is at college, and the youthful one is in highschool. My husband handed away when our youthful child was simply over a 12 months outdated, and I’ve been a single guardian since then. My job as a public officer brings in about VND10 million (US$411) month-to-month, making elevating two youngsters fairly difficult.

As my youngsters have grown extra unbiased, I’ve discovered extra time for myself. Becoming a member of teams for single individuals worldwide, I’ve met new individuals, discovered rather a lot about completely different cultures, and broadened my horizons.

I began speaking with a South Korean man not too long ago. He lives together with his aged mom close to Seoul and has a manager-level place at his firm, fairly than working in handbook labor or engineering.

He has proposed marriage to me and has stated that my youthful baby and I can transfer to South Korea, as my older baby prefers to remain in Vietnam for profession prospects. He stated I can spend time studying the language and adjusting to South Korean life at first earlier than finally discovering a job in order that I can contribute to our household financially.

I like his dedication and his willingness to decide to spending the remainder of his life with me. Regardless of years of single parenthood, I nonetheless search companionship, particularly as my youngsters are actually extra self-sufficient.

Nevertheless, marrying a foreigner and relocating overseas is formidable to me. My information of South Korean life is restricted, leaving me with issues about potential challenges, together with employment prospects at my age. I can’t predict which obstacles I’ll should cope with after relocating there both.

Alternatively, staying in Vietnam means persevering with my present job for about 5 extra years after which having fun with a modest, peaceable retirement.

What ought to I do? Can somebody, particularly these with expertise in South Korea, give me recommendation?