My husband provides me VND5 million (US$206) for our household’s bills solely and criticizes me for overspending each time I inform him it’s not sufficient.
We bought married three years in the past, have a two-year-old child, and live in Hanoi. I feel my husband’s persona is mostly good, as he doesn’t have any unhealthy habits and we match when it comes to views on life. The one downside I’ve with him is that he’s not conscious of our household’s residing bills.
I do know that my husband’s month-to-month wage is VND10 million, however he insists on giving me half of that for our household’s bills solely.
I didn’t need to take this cash situation significantly with him at first, so I attempted to make it work with my VND8 million month-to-month wage mixed with the VND5 million he provides me each month. Nevertheless it didn’t work after we welcomed our child, as now we have extra issues to spend our cash on.
As my husband didn’t point out something about contributing extra money, I requested him just lately to provide me extra.
He bought mad, saying the quantity he provides me is sufficient for our child’s meals and kindergarten charges. He additionally stated all his male mates give their wives VND5 million a month solely however not one of the girls complained.
I defined to him many occasions that given inflation, every thing prices extra. To not point out that we even have a child to pay for now.
However he replied to me that as a lady, I have to know how you can stability our household bills and by no means take into consideration irrationally by asking for extra. Even after I confirmed him my document of what I have to pay for in a month, he stated I used to be too materialistic and that made him drained.
I really feel so unhappy due to what my husband stated. I might slightly reside by myself than reside with such an irresponsible husband.
What ought to I do?