I’m continuously troubled and indecisive about whether or not I ought to research overseas or not.
I’m a sophomore pupil at a high college and am at present on a go away of absence. My members of the family are handbook laborers and never very well-off, and we have now a debt of almost VND1 billion (US$41,000).
I’ve a relative within the U.S., so my household desires me to review there. Nevertheless, this requires taking an extra mortgage of VND500 million to help my software course of. My household already struggles with our current debt, so including extra to it’s nearly insufferable to me. And although my household insists that they need what’s greatest for me, I do know everybody thinks repaying this debt will change into my duty.
I don’t need to research overseas both. I don’t need to face the challenges I’ll encounter abroad. I don’t need to really feel lonely and alienated, and I don’t need to return to Vietnam with a mountain of debt.
Furthermore, my household has instructed unlawful methods to make sure my settlement within the U.S. post-graduation, together with sham marriages, which I detest. I need to keep in Vietnam.
I’m extraordinarily careworn and have repeatedly informed my household that I don’t need to go. Regardless of my protests, my household strongly opposes this, calling me naive and silly for not having a broader imaginative and prescient.
I simply haven’t any ardour to dwell and work within the U.S. I need to dwell and resolve my very own life. I feel I can nonetheless assist my household repay the debt if I keep in Vietnam and help my dad and mom as properly.
Is staying in Vietnam egocentric in my case? What ought to I do?