I’m continually troubled and indecisive about whether or not I ought to research overseas or not.
I’m a sophomore scholar at a prime college and am presently on a depart of absence. My relations are guide laborers and never very well-off, and now we have a debt of practically VND1 billion (US$41,000).
I’ve a relative within the U.S., so my household desires me to check there. Nevertheless, this requires taking an extra mortgage of VND500 million to help my software course of. My household already struggles with our present debt, so including extra to it’s nearly insufferable to me. And although my household insists that they need what’s greatest for me, I do know everybody thinks repaying this debt will change into my duty.
I don’t wish to research overseas both. I don’t wish to face the challenges I’ll encounter out of the country. I don’t wish to really feel lonely and alienated, and I don’t wish to return to Vietnam with a mountain of debt.
Furthermore, my household has urged unlawful methods to make sure my settlement within the U.S. post-graduation, together with sham marriages, which I detest. I wish to keep in Vietnam.
I’m extraordinarily confused and have repeatedly advised my household that I don’t wish to go. Regardless of my protests, my household strongly opposes this, calling me naive and silly for not having a broader imaginative and prescient.
I simply don’t have any ardour to dwell and work within the U.S. I wish to dwell and determine my very own life. I believe I can nonetheless assist my household repay the debt if I keep in Vietnam and help my mother and father as properly.
Is staying in Vietnam egocentric in my case? What ought to I do?