I used to have a financially secure life in Vietnam since my month-to-month revenue ranged between VND30-45 million ($1,233-1,850). With that revenue I used to be in a position to purchase no matter I wished and introduced my mother and father on occasional leisure journeys.
I immigrated to my husband’s nation with an immigrant visa for a partner, so I’m ready for my residential allow and thus, have to remain at residence as a substitute of doing a job till then.
My husband is rich however I don’t like how I’m having to depend on him for every part, from ready for him to drive me along with his automotive every time I wish to go someplace, to counting on him to get my immigrant standing sponsored. I wish to regain my impartial life.
My husband has a toddler with a former girlfriend, although they by no means bought married. His child has simply moved out and doesn’t rely on him financially.
Nonetheless, my husband and I signed an settlement which said that if something unhealthy occurred to my husband, his properties would go to his child as a substitute of me.
I didn’t marry my husband for cash or for an opportunity to relocate to his nation, so I signed it with none doubts.
Nonetheless, now that I give it some thought once more, I’ve modified my thoughts, as even when I stick with my husband for a decade or a lifetime, I cannot get something from him. That’s unfair.
I talked to my husband about this. He and his child promised me that I will probably be taken care of by his child if any unhealthy thingshappened to him, and I belief them. Nonetheless, the sensation of being depending on others makes me insecure.
I even have another issues with my husband. Since he’s a rich and high-profile determine right here, he won’t permit me to work as a workers at a restaurant or a manicure retailer, that are occupations which might be simple to use and may convey good cash. And my husband shouldn’t be so beneficiant along with his spending cash both.
I don’t know if I’m simply overthinking or there are certainly issues. However on the one hand, I really feel insecure with my present life.
Then again, I don’t wish to return to Vietnam since dwelling right here permits me to have a greater life. I believe I’ve good relationships with my husband and his child as nicely.
What ought to I do?